5 Awkward Sexual Experiences
While sex is arguably one of the greatest and most exciting pleasures of life, the hype and buildup may also make it amongst the most nerve-wracking and awkward experiences when expectations are not met or nerves take over or something unpredictable happens. Nonetheless, it is important to realize that this is an activity in which you should take full pleasure, relax, enjoy and most importantly laugh off any embarrassing/awkward incidents that may occur.
1. Finishing too early
Among the most common of awkward sexual experiences is a partner finishing too early, this is commonly the case for individuals with a lack of experience who may be having sex for the first time, it is also common in individuals who haven’t had sex in a long time. At times like this, the partner who climaxes too quickly may feel like disappearing off the face of the Earth out of pure embarrassment, however, at times like this they tend to forget that the experience is equally as awkward for the other partner hence should be nothing to stress over. If you’re confident and comfortable enough, you may even ask your partner to help you finish.
2. Taking too long to finish
On the contrary there are moments where you feel like it just won’t end. At this point, you might have already reached your climax, but your partner is going on and on with no signs of ending or switching positions anytime soon. In such situations, it is important to have good communication with your partner and be comfortable enough to convey your concern to them or ask them to do something different.
3. Farting, peeing during sex
We can’t forget those situations where your body takes over, and things are out of your control, every now and then there are instances where one partner may let one loose or may suddenly get the urge to pee. There is nothing more embarrassing and awkward than letting a fart loose in the midst of such a hot steamy moment, both for you and your partner, as in with every other awkward bedroom experience, the best reaction is to laugh it over and get on with your life. When it comes to peeing, however, that is something you have more control over but it might be a buzz-kill when things are getting hot and heavy. At times the vagina may make noises that may seem like farts on insertion of anything, this is oftentimes embarrassing for the women and confusing for the man himself. It is important to become accustomed to these natural processes.
4. Lack of arousal
One of the scariest situations in the bedroom is when you or your partner are not aroused during sex, this may be the case no matter how in the mood you are. This is scary and embarrassing for both partners equally, the partner not being aroused may think there is something wrong with them whereas the other partner may feel as if they’re not good enough and it may shatter their confidence as well. If this is a one-time issue, the best course of action would be to… you guessed it, laugh it off. However, if this is a recurrent issue, do not hesitate to pay a visit to your local doctor.
5. Men being bad at sex
It is not a tough task to get a male aroused and get him to reach his climax, females on the other hand… that’s a whole other ball game. To be fair, not every other male you see will have his female anatomy down ready to give a girl the best night of her life, most times it is useful to guide them along with what you desire. However, there are times when the man may have no idea whatsoever and do something completely undesirable, unorthodox, or unexpected as a whole. Often time this is not only awkward and un-satisfying but may even be painful in some instances. As always to avoid such instances in the future, good communication is vital.
